3am ThoughtsAh, joblessness, the pinnacle of achievement in our modern society. Who needs the mundane trappings of a steady income, career growth, and personal fulfillment when you can bask in the glorious realm of unemployment? I applaud myself for reaching this remarkable milestone and commend myself on my seemingly infinite ability to avoid the chains of labor. […]
Adulting is a bitch…(forgive my language).I mean, adulting is hard. I am hating this whole adulting sham!! I don’t get a reward when my room is clean. I don’t get enough time for naps. Absolutely everything is far much more expensive than it should be. There aren’t enough hours in a day. Relationships and friendships […]
Moving on Cut off contact. The idea of completely letting go is always overwhelming. You can not be friends with your ex. Many people hang on the idea of friendship with an ex as a way to keep the possibility of keeping some bits of the relationship alive, or with hope that things will change […]
The truth is, none of us are easy to date, deal with, or please all the time, and after reading a few of Danielle Steele’s book I’ve really come to appreciate this passage. They might be fiction but she tells the stories as they would have happened in real life…. “We’re all seeking that special […]
I love memes. I think I follow almost every meme account or page there’s on social media. I even have meme apps on my phone. Over time, I have realized that, in as much as I enjoy memes, I find other memes quite offensive, depressing and insulting. I know I am not the only one […]
Feminism at it’s core is about equal rights and I agree with this. But, what do we do when encountered by a woman who uses feminism as an excuse to tear down others (men), instead of bringing women up? Feminism is defined as the belief in social, economic, and political equality of the sexes.It’s crazy […]
I want you, but it won’t do no harm keeping my options open, will it? Not necessarily for someone better to come along, but for someone I’m willing to commit to, unless of course one day I become sure about you.
Anyone can find themselves stuck in the white-knuckled grip of toxic relationships. It’s a common refrain…”relationships are hard work and rough patches are part of the course”. There’s no school of relationships, neither a course on how to be a perfect partner. We are all human after all. No one is perfect, nothing is Perfect. […]
Why are you so quiet?You’re too self consciousWhy are you too shy?You’re too hard to talk to…You seem depressed…Did something happen to you?Just speak a little more… It only frustrates so much because the tone behind these statements and questions often seems judgemental. I don’t go around telling people they’re loud. Growing up, everyone constantly […]
“Every girl deserves to feel like a star Every man deserves to feel like a king”… Poetry, books and lyrics have been written to the effect. But look,I don’t think my scars are beautiful. I don’t think my stretch marks are tiger stripes or natural tattoos. I don’t think my acne is pretty.I don’t think […]
The truth is, I never quite understand people who sleep easily. Sometimes, I envy them.Don’t they have thoughts?I wonder why I can’t go to bed and just sleep. It has always been so easy pushing an hour after another in the night. I don’t know why I have to think so hard about everything the […]
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